Too self can lose opportunity

Too self can lose opportunity
As a woman, you can be very confident, you can also have a little bit of self love, but can not be too self. Because, the woman in this society is more difficult than the man, if you again because of the self and the others are far away from you, so, your chances of success are slim. There are many talent, have the ability to people in the world, but a truly successful, people have less and less, one of the key factors is that successful people don’t believe in “exclusive”, they know to succeed, single handedly alone and not to cooperate with others, is unable to move.
In today’s society of professional people, to get better development, we must first learn to do a good job with others. You work with colleagues, superiors and subordinates to determine if your future development and success, if you can not work with the partners to maintain good relations, despite your level of knowledge and skills, it is not enough to make you comfortable in the work, play freely.
As an ordinary member of the society, each person is more or less connected to others. Any one of the work needs the help of others, any kind of success, can not do without the support of everyone. A person’s ability is very important, but, in this world, there are many talented people, only the ability, but also far from you can get the conditions for success. Don’t underestimate the power of human relations, not a harmonious interpersonal relationships, to be successful, almost impossible. Most of the time, the opportunity is not you, but we give you. When life gives you a chance to know how to cherish and Thanksgiving, don’t because of the wrong way of interpersonal communication and let their and missed opportunities.
So if you want to make their own way of life go smoother, brilliant, a surname please enhance their awareness of the team, not too full of yourself. Only to integrate themselves into the team, will not encounter the situation of being alienated. If everyone wants to be close to you, once you open it, you and the people of the county road man-made barriers will automatically disappear, that is, Deng will be isolated in the crowd outside of you, to prevent you from stepping into the path of success is no longer exist, then you will be a step towards success. Some people say. If a person is too self, then, his success will be just a framework, and can never be achieved,. If you don’t want to make your own success just in the form of a frame in mind, please abandon the idea of being too self, into the activities of the people, to meet the reality of the real success.

Opportunity is given by others.

Opportunity is given by others.
Many had just walked society young people, especially who believed has the ability and capital of young people, in the beginning of his career, often used to free the personnel, that rely on their own have a bit of talent, can be alone in the world, all over the world no adversary. As everyone knows, the heroism of the individual thought and behavior. In the future career, is a very fatal weakness.
Such a person, often in the future work everywhere be rebuffed, frustrated and working time longer more snags, the more serious setbacks. Such people do not know how to cooperate, do not understand the importance of interpersonal relationships, resulting in their own not only lost a lot of rare opportunities, and can not get promotion or promotion opportunities, or even because they can not integrate into the team, and had to be expelled from the team.
Opportunity comes from the people around
Now the workplace, more attention to team cooperation. If you have excellent professional skills, but arrogant, not with the people around you mingle, then, even if you have filled with ambition but in vain. In a lot of times, don’t be too proud to be in the face of a colleague, and get along with them. Give others a happy mood, give others the opportunity to play their own talents, in fact, is to give yourself the opportunity to help others, but also to their own. With another force qingyun. Opportunity.
Graduated from a famous university in Shanghai computer professional Zhang Lan, from a young age, so, whether parents or school teachers, all of her love. During the University, Zhang Lan performance of surplus all talents. Therefore, the envy of students, teacher appreciation, she often narcissism. She used to. Bachelor degree, master’s degree. To evaluate your ability.
In Zhang Lan has not yet graduated, east of a software development company to school personnel selection, and preferential treatment to recruit her into the company. In the company executives and Zhang Lan into a deeper communication to confirm she really talented, therefore, decided to direct entrusts with an important task, let she presided over the development of a medium-sized game software.
In such a competitive society, many college students are still running on the job on the road, Zhang Lan has early to bear such a burden. To this end, Zhang Lan is very proud of himself, decided to seize the opportunity, take a big.
But LAN Zhang bon voyage to go down, this is unexpectedly suffered a her “Waterloo” in the process of software development, she actually can not be to fully cooperate with the development of other members of the group, make progress in her work very difficult.
Originally, because Zhang Lan was a favored way, formed the self-centered personality. In the development of the group, she not only extremely conceited, not to listen to the opinions and suggestions of the other members and bossed around by other members, calling the shots, we in many times after the patient finally collective protest, no longer follow her advice. And in her opinion, it is not willing to cooperate with other members of her work.
After the general manager of the company to understand the situation, some regret to tell Zhang Lan. We very much appreciate your talent, but you should know the importance of team of a company, I can’t for you a person who commits outrage, so very sorry, I must put you replace down and transferred to another position, although I also feel very sorry. In addition, I hope that you can think about the problem of getting along with others seriously, that’s very important!
LAN Zhang talented eventually declined the general manager of the transfer, leave this could let her talent company.
No matter where you go, you need to work with other people. For this, I believe you should have learned from a smart company manager in words.
Zhang Lan left the company, and it was a lesson to her. Because Zhang Lan graduated from a famous university, in the computer and talented, she again to find a good job is not difficult. As long as this lesson let her understand the importance of getting along with people, for her is get good out of misfortune.

The accumulation of contacts as a kind of investment

The accumulation of contacts as a kind of investment
A person’s network is acquired through human relations, of course, here also includes a person’s ability to manage the network. Female social communication is relatively narrow, but the situation is more complex in the process of interpersonal relationship, which requires women to have stronger communication skills and the ability to manage their own network.
Some people regard the process of accumulation of personal connections as a deposit to the bank in a regular way to save people’s own savings, until your personal contacts and the number is growing, you have the resources that you have more wealth. In fact, more specifically, the accumulation and operation of the process, it should be said to be an investment. It is not only in accordance with the deposit so simple, because the amount of deposit is limited, you can only draw much, at most, plus some interest; and personal connections are not, you deposit in the network, you may be able to pay back the interest of numerous times, and, as long as you are good, you can not spend time limit, any time, connections are you can use the resources.
“Friend” provides the opportunity
Most people in work, in addition to a number of purely technical work, will be exposed to the work related to the people outside the unit, many people in the process of communication, in addition to working relationships, but also developed into a relatively good private relationship. Many times, these people will have a great impact on you in your career or in your daily life, and give you an unexpected help.
Han Guanhui, an advertising professional, after graduation from a newspaper advertising department. During the work, she has the opportunity to contact the Samsung, the United States and other major Brand Company of business. She did her best to do a good job, have a warm, considerate service, and sincerely ask for advice and suggestions on the advertising plan, which makes them very satisfied with her work. They continued to advertise in the newspaper that she works for her, to improve the performance of a lot of work, she and these customers in the private have become good friends.
Although performance has been good, but naturally like Han Guanhui challenges in work a few years later, unwilling to all day in the office computer advertising scheme, and decided to left the newspaper and start my own business. This time, she thought of the previous partnership law — personal relationship with customers friends. Just right At that time, the United States in the city where the air conditioning is not yet a store, Han Guanhui put forward their own to do the United States Air conditioning sales agents, the other is not too much hesitation, in many competitors are similar conditions in the case. Give her the right to exclusive sales in the local area.
Han Meihui was very lucky, she got the chance to get from her clients. However, Han Meihui’s results are inevitable, because she is the beginning of the work, the customer as a friend to operate. Han Meihui to run the business of customers, business friends made a kind of investment, the accumulation of their work in the small and scattered savings into the cause of great wealth. From the customer to develop into a friend, is the success of Han Meihui interpersonal management, it is these from the customer development to friends, help her succeed in business, let her have the opportunity to achieve self, self.
First hand information can also be borrowed”
Generally speaking, the first hand information of current events is very valuable and very rare, we must pay more than the average of the hardships and efforts. If that people not through their own efforts, but to others borrowed first-hand information, you may not feeling, however, American potato international current affairs analysis Jia Zhi Lipman, but access on their own without effort, without the ability to get the first hand information and successfully to others through the first-hand information they need to.
Lippmann old age, because of the limited time and energy himself to “the globe”, for their own research obtained first-hand information, which for the current folding the Lippmann is convergence of life.
However, Lippmann is not a breath, he has his own way, in many years of work, he has a lot of work in the first line of reporters friends. Every time you need the situation of a country of before, he would in his current affairs memo find once stationed in the country’s correspondent, please send them to dinner, happily drink. The natural to talk about some specific real situation in that country. Therefore For others “difficult to find” the first hand, Li Pu is more “all feigongfu don’t come”.
To live in this society, everyone needs to use the power of other people to meet their needs. As the ancients said, “the wise man has the power, the wise man’s strength, the wisdom of the wise man.”.” Lippmann is a man of the wisdom of the people, and can be used for him, it is he accumulated in the normal work of the network resources. Such a network of resources, so that his work in his old age, although not to visit the site to obtain first-hand information, but it is almost no time to get the.
Whether it is Han Meihui or Lippmann, they are the accumulation of contacts as a kind of investment. They store up their relationships in normal times, and make them more of a snowball, which makes them more of their own.
In fact, each of us has such opportunities, almost all of the people will be exposed to some customers in their own work, important is, you suddenly like and the customer contact, suddenly like to these customers to develop into your friends, trespass to these friends become your network of capital in the original capital, and to make these relations earning day. Only in this way, in your future development path, will continue to have people to help you.

Opportunity is given by others.

Opportunity is given by others.
Many had just walked society young people, especially who believed has the ability and capital of young people, in the beginning of his career, often used to free the personnel, that rely on their own have a bit of talent, can be alone in the world, all over the world no adversary. As everyone knows, the heroism of the individual thought and behavior. In the future career, is a very fatal weakness.
Such a person, often in the future work everywhere be rebuffed, frustrated and working time longer more snags, the more serious setbacks. Such people do not know how to cooperate, do not understand the importance of interpersonal relationships, resulting in their own not only lost a lot of rare opportunities, and can not get promotion or promotion opportunities, or even because they can not integrate into the team, and had to be expelled from the team.
Opportunity comes from the people around
Now the workplace, more attention to team cooperation. If you have excellent professional skills, but arrogant, not with the people around you mingle, then, even if you have filled with ambition but in vain. In a lot of times, don’t be too proud to be in the face of a colleague, and get along with them. Give others a happy mood, give others the opportunity to play their own talents, in fact, is to give yourself the opportunity to help others, but also to their own. With another force qingyun. Opportunity.
Graduated from a famous university in Shanghai computer professional Zhang Lan, from a young age, so, whether parents or school teachers, all of her love. During the University, Zhang Lan performance of surplus all talents. Therefore, the envy of students, teacher appreciation, she often narcissism. She used to. Bachelor degree, master’s degree. To evaluate your ability.
In Zhang Lan has not yet graduated, east of a software development company to school personnel selection, and preferential treatment to recruit her into the company. In the company executives and Zhang Lan into a deeper communication to confirm she really talented, therefore, decided to direct entrusts with an important task, let she presided over the development of a medium-sized game software.
In such a competitive society, many college students are still running on the job on the road, Zhang Lan has early to bear such a burden. To this end, Zhang Lan is very proud of himself, decided to seize the opportunity, take a big.
But LAN Zhang bon voyage to go down, this is unexpectedly suffered a her “Waterloo” in the process of software development, she actually can not be to fully cooperate with the development of other members of the group, make progress in her work very difficult.
Originally, because Zhang Lan was a favored way, formed the self-centered personality. In the development of the group, she not only extremely conceited, not to listen to the opinions and suggestions of the other members and bossed around by other members, calling the shots, we in many times after the patient finally collective protest, no longer follow her advice. And in her opinion, it is not willing to cooperate with other members of her work.
After the general manager of the company to understand the situation, some regret to tell Zhang Lan. We very much appreciate your talent, but you should know the importance of team of a company, I can’t for you a person who commits outrage, so very sorry, I must put you replace down and transferred to another position, although I also feel very sorry. In addition, I hope that you can think about the problem of getting along with others seriously, that’s very important!
LAN Zhang talented eventually declined the general manager of the transfer, leave this could let her talent company.
No matter where you go, you need to work with other people. For this, I believe you should have learned from a smart company manager in words.
Zhang Lan left the company, and it was a lesson to her. Because Zhang Lan graduated from a famous university, in the computer and talented, she again to find a good job is not difficult. As long as this lesson let her understand the importance of getting along with people, for her is get good out of misfortune.

Let the woman contacts Xinxiangshicheng

Let the woman contacts Xinxiangshicheng
Women living in modern society, especially women who have just graduated from college are looking for work, many people have such a feeling, although the market is always a lot of recruitment, although many large companies are recruiting, but to their own here, but can not find a suitable job.
Acquaintances recommended to help you easily find a satisfactory job.
In fact, to find a good job, not just to buy a newspaper, a visit to the recruitment website will be able to easily get through the recruitment website. Many times, from the introduction of acquaintances to be more successful than your own high probability of success. The results show that more than half of the company in the recruitment of employees, especially the need for some important positions, are the first from the company’s internal staff or acquaintances recommendation, because the risk of a small number of acquaintances recommended site recruitment, but also bring more easily into the state of staff. So, as long as your ability to be competent for a job, in the case of an acquaintance recommended, the probability of your success is almost one hundred percent.
Xiaoqin next month is going to a famous website served as deputy editor in chief, this is a copy of her long-awaited work. Little piano naturally very happy. However, happy, she did not feel the accident, because in her view, with their ability to work and good interpersonal relationships, get this job is only a matter of time.
Small Qin has five years of network editing experience, at work, she with a keen sense of professional, skilled business editor and legendary professionalism, in the circle of the medium-sized small famous, industry colleagues almost all know Xiaoqin. In addition to such well-known because of the professional skills and professional skills and dedication, but also because she usually very attention to the management of their own network resources.
In the network editing of this period of time, the small piano and the major site editors have had a lot of contact, many of which are some of the senior editor reporters. Although the business is not too much, but usually private relationship is good, every day, or the other special day, the little piano will be the first time to send greetings and blessings. As for the usual contact, although most of the network, but the other side of the small piano in the other seemingly casual day, send an email or in QQ, MSN send a smile and greeting. If you have time, she will also invite some friends to go to KTV or shopping, eat. Therefore, although she does not have any particular outstanding contribution and work in the industry, but, because of the good interpersonal management, many people in the world are her good friends, she wants to go to large web sites to do the idea of editing is also put on the friends of the proceedings.
So soon friend told Xiaoqin, a large portal is seeking a deputy editor in chief of staff, and consent of Xiaoqin, Xiaoqin resume directly recommended to the units in the human resources department. Website of the human resources department manager and editor in chief to understand the relevant circumstances that Xiaoqin influence in the industry, contacts and the ability to work all aspects of quality are very suitable for the site of the current development. After several interviews, the site finally determined to hire small Qin deputy editor.
Xiaoqin use their accumulation in the circle of good, easily get their desire to work. From this point of view, the communication skills of small piano, in its work after the R, perhaps more than her own professional and more to play a role.
In fact, whether it is the enterprise recruitment, or individuals looking for work, are more willing to use contacts. Through the recommendation of a relationship with the two sides, both sides of the trust of each other will be greatly increased, cooperation will be more understanding and more harmonious. So if you are a clever women, whether you are just Huaye are applying for a job, or intend to shoot jump, or your current job make you satisfied and happy, you should use every opportunity to own savings contacts, if not to find work, with sufficient network resources, for your current job and a great help.
Communicative competence is the survival of the modern people, for any one of the workplace, especially women, are very important. Good interpersonal skills and communication ability, not only help you to find a good 1 for the Lord direct and simple, a person in the career development process, good interpersonal skills will have glaze often directly, slope 39 for JN. So if you want I “I own career development faster, than their own future development road) t was more flat, Deng, enhancing the ability of interpersonal communication, let oneself become a talent of modern communication, to gather around you more friends and elegant, allow themselves to become the center of the help they. Want to think, the kind of day is not to be more happy?
Don’t put their connections unusable
Just Huaye students, often suffer from just step into the society, no more stronger connections to help fin a oneself, resulting in some good opportunities for former West can not match. At the same time, there are some people, because of lax management pat, you have connections, thereby losing some could use the good opportunity.
Nana candidates television entertainment presenters. At the time of the interview, unexpectedly the view, the interviewer turned out to be his good friend Jingjing before the intern teacher Hanbo, have a good relationship with the cyanine cyanine, Nana had also seen him.
After the interview, Nana to good friends the cyanine cyanine call, tell her I saw her intern teacher’s things, and asked her to ask about your interview and see that they have no chance to enter a retest.
Jingjing received a phone call from Nana, also surprised. After the internship, because of the busy work, she has been a long time no contact with the Han teacher. This time, by Nana, she suddenly thought of it.
She quickly found the phone call to the South Korean teacher, called after the past, by the way to ask Nana. The teacher is very happy, said: “I remember, Nana is a good performance, she is your friend, I think she should have no problem to enter the next round. Oh, how do you work now? After the end of the internship, there will be no news of you, I have a few chances here to recommend to you, but, has not been able to contact you, very sorry!”
Know the cyanine cyanine have found a satisfactory job, Korean teacher to relief said: “find a good job just fine. Just don’t forget to contact, may have a better chance!”
On the one hand to promise a certain Jingjing contact, as well as some remorse. Korean teacher although not blame himself, however, the teacher always regret remember their work, while they have not with him. At the same time, she is also reflection, because of their own in the passive nature of communication, not only lost a lot of good opportunities, but also a little bit of their contacts to the neglect.
The cyanine cyanine is lucky, because friends Nana things, let her contact to their intern teacher Hanbo and recognized in a timely manner to their neglect of interpersonal relationships. Although they have missed some good opportunities, but in general, to their own or not cause too much damage.
In real life, Qiu the cyanine cyanine such neglect operations his contacts of a lot of people, especially some introverted girl, whether it is for what reason always seldom take the initiative to their network of resources management, not add new resources for their own contacts, sometimes, Yun to existing resources because of their neglect of contact and was eventually abandoned.
In fact, the girl just graduated from university will not have to distress, network resources will not have to wait until the social future will have, as long as you are good at business, don’t neglect to keep in touch with others, your personal connections, from any time can start. Teachers, students and their friends in college. You during the internship period teachers or leaders of the unit, perilla to your hardworking frugal hours understanding people or tutor when exposed to the parents of students, can become a member of your network of resources. Han Bo in the story above the teacher, it is only an intern teacher. Jingjing.
As a new era of the new women, although you may have stable career, family happiness, however, must not Ryukyu suddenly the networking business, don’t put their contacts shortage nullify. Even if you don’t have a relationship at a time, at any time, the network resource is the capital you must have in this society.