Women need to learn to be considerate

Women need to learn to be considerate

Accidentally in a online see such a information: a men of mood very low and depressed, all day is to wine poured worry, reasons is has has quite long of a time has, wife has been in with himself make awkward, language in the more has contempt of meaning, no longer respect himself, not for other, on for he recently career not too smooth, money earned less has, and household of overhead is is increased, especially wife habits has lavishly money, now didn’t money spent has, natural on reflect in she of mood also bad, mood bad natural face is poor, Poor face natural temper is bad.

Such of woman actually in reality life in the Meadow, and such of woman also not can said is character bad, or said is heart enough kind, should said just has compared strong of vanity or is has competitive of character just, and such of woman usually home has been by husband of variety pet, to habit has compared strong of parents style, in husband can lot money enough to support she of chic money Shi, woman may also can slightly listening to husband of several sentence words, once husband income dropped let she was economic constraints Shi, Her spoiled Lady tempers naturally will be exposed, with “poor couples day mourning” to describe such women a little too much, therefore, between husband and wife with the sweet easy win is more difficult.

In fact, live at home, the money is less, however, has more money for useless, but can make people feel at ease, but also bring more security to the family, that is the reality. However, if the couple quarrel all day for less money is also a very hurtful thing. You know, you can spend more money, less can be less money spent. In our society, more of those hundreds of Yuan a month income of ordinary workers, they live a humble place, ate simple food, wear simple clothing, smoking cheap cigarettes, even though they live in a world where we can’t even imagine, but most of them still live very simple fun?

Thus, thought of a family life with a sense of well-being and happiness, depending on the woman of the family’s attitudes and expectations for their man, if the woman needs is relatively simple, the burden of the family, men are happier, to know every man who shoulder the burden for families, I hope our family happy, carefree life.

If woman has been not satisfaction himself family of life environment and life quality, on husband of requirements natural will is high, if requirements high to husband cannot reached of degree, family not harmony of status on to avoid, couples fight even make to divorce also not uncommon of case, because, no a men like those attitude strong and hegemony of woman, men always like bird and gentle thoughtful of woman, like those talk soft and failing total wants to find husband discuss of woman, Like the peace of mind with slight vanity of women.

However, with economic development and around crowd life quality of improve, especially worship led to of material prevailed, has serious twisted has people of value concept, increasingly vanity and increasingly impetuous into has most people by hook or by crook grab wealth of thought concept, so, now in we this world in, pursuit quality and high grade life of family increasingly more, to can meet Yu life simple of woman is increasingly less. Especially currently life of price index has been in high run, except wage yiwai what are in rose, let many past life has been more plenty of family economic suddenly on appeared has austerity of status, from, these family of woman if cannot timely adjustment mentality, natural on will complaint four, home no everyday, fight into has they family often staged of program, increasingly was no security, more what on has what happiness sense has.

In fact, life is a roller coaster ride, climb, also have sunk to a low ebb when, as long as the faith unchanged, suffer hardship does not change, will keep clouds at sunrise. More importantly at this time is the wife of the man needs understanding, is a woman quietly supported and encouraged women to be patient and take care of her husband’s body, as long as men in good health will rise from the ashes of that day.

So, I wants to told has similar family problem of couples, if you of old just faced unemployment or is frustrated, please more to he is comfort and encourages, more to he is thoughtful and support, more to he is good solutions satisfactory, less is complained, less is shoot, let he can in pain and lost of years in as soon as possible exciting spirit, as soon as possible out of life of trough, as soon as possible adjustment good mentality and input to again venture of passion among.

Smart wives who know when to man encouraging and empathetic caring woman!

Find out each other’s bottom line

Find out each other’s bottom line

    Anna has been in intention and a large business cooperation, with great difficulty to find a friend to help introduce, finally, general manager of this enterprise took time from his busy schedule, he agreed to go to Anna arranged at the hotel party. Anna is very happy, it was decided that a golden opportunity to get things done, but she also struggled, general manager of the lady invited to the party.

    Two of the most important guests, both came to the party, general manager nearly middle-aged couple, but could see were well-maintained. Anna saw the general manager and then general manager praised his wife, he said:

    “Madame really elegant, extraordinary temperament, presumably son, daughter but also as parents generally excellent. Ventured to ask, I do not know the general manager has several lovely child?”

    This question does not matter, really very presumptuous. General manager of the couple have also smiling face, and shortly became a liver-colored, very ugly. Mrs. deliberately turned away, pretending not to hear, and one of the guests beside chatting. General manager can not be avoided, keep silent and looked at Anna, reach for table wine in one gulp.

    Originally, the general manager of couples unable to have children as being distressed, and even decided to divorce. Anna inadvertently questioning she lost a good opportunity this collaboration, wasted a banquet table and a night time.

    “Know thyself, know yourself.” If even the people did not get a clear idea of ​​the ins and outs, it is likely to produce many unnecessary misunderstandings in the process of interaction. Thus, it is necessary to prepare and deal with others before inquire about each other’s situation, on the other side have a general understanding of the basic situation. Touched the bottom of others, he said things have an end.

    Now more and more ways of information dissemination, “without leaving, also known world affairs”, you can use a variety of channels to obtain information and other related information.

    Best way is to grasp first-hand information to other people about, to different people inquire.

    1. To inquire about the people around him

    Around him and his contacts more frequent, his habits, manners, ideas, family background and so are more familiar with, to bring together the most basic information, then you can probably understand this human nature and experienced . If the story of Anna can advance to inquire about the situation of his friend and general manager, including his family members, living conditions, personal taboo, then this unpleasant things would not happen.

    2. To find out his opponent

    Of course, the angle is not the same for each person stand evaluation will naturally be different. In order to more fully understand his situation, you may also wish to inquire about his opponent, you may get very different answers in turn.

    To be more objective, comprehensive, you find out who the better, other family, friends, colleagues, classmates, neighbors and so can ask. It is important, it is necessary to get the information together, a person can not just listen to the words of the letter!

    If you have face to face, you do not get someone else’s “intelligence”, but you still have a chance, that is, your intuition and keen observation, presumably his character from his words and deeds and external temperament, hobbies, background. If you can not be sure he has a certain understanding, then you better behave conservative. Best not to ask too deep topic, try to avoid talking about their own thing clear, especially each other’s **. If the other party is not convenient to answer hastily raised problems that may cause embarrassment, resulting in communication barriers, can also cause other side of displeasure, disgust and repulsion on you.

    More and talk to strangers

    A silver-haired woman often appear on Times Square in New York. Many people suspect that she came to this walk, some exercise or something, there are people that she might homeless. But things are not like that.

    Saw the face tears of children, she will take the initiative came to ask: “You are not looking for your mother to die how can I help How about you??”

    She would pat eyeful melancholy girl’s shoulder, and asked: “!? Poor child tell me what you are sad thing.”

Although he refused to say, but there is “way” to follow:

Although he refused to say, but there is “way” to follow:

1. Others please tell

Generally speaking, in the presence of others refused or rejected is always hard to accept in person, after all, and he hoped the gap is too big. Someone else’s request just like a beautiful soap bubble, if you all of a sudden burst is somewhat cruel, and please others to give the others time and psychological cushioning, relatively speaking, are easily accepted.

2. Other pointers:

When you’re powerless, or at the request of to do when you don’t want to help, you can introduce him in several ways. Fred has also used this method in the example, he let friends pay attention to strengthening the quality of design drawings may be another way out.

If you showed ways to remain “dead line”, I believe that your friend won’t blame you, after all you are trying to help advise him. Of course, if this is successful, you will naturally become the object of gratitude.

3. Begged

Fred said he was going to buy furniture is a Dodge. If you like Fred, met each other at the invitation of potential requests, may wish to use this approach, no matter what the reason, smart person will definitely see what you mean.

4. Fuzzy answer file

If a friend or loved one suggested that flowers in the park weekend, don’t refuse. “I’m not going to, not fun at all! “Something very easy to hurt each other’s self-esteem, put other people’s enthusiasm and high spirits. You can say: “flowers are great! Go boating this season should be good, too! “This answer sounds like endorsed each other’s proposals, but it shows that you are more likely to rowing, in essence, is a negative.

5. Transfer issue is answered in the negative

It doesn’t have to be “Yes” and “no” answers the request, aside the problem itself is synonymous with refuse. If they say: “we’re skating again tomorrow to this place! “” Oh! I think we should get back! “Your answer will at least make them think you’re cold in this proposal, he will know that you want to grant his request.

6. Use meaningful silence

People have different understanding of the silence, the silence has different meanings in different. Silence can say resistance or silence expressed strong negative, can also indicate the default silence can say dull dull, can also be represented inside a wealth of thought … …

If the other party has expressed his view on things, although you smile, but you’re silent you hid the real thoughts, which he says is probably negative.

Don’t be afraid of hurting their feelings and face, acknowledge the promise of all the requests. Once you like the other person expects you promised to do things well, it will delay things, myself and my friends that I’m sorry.

Women how to weave their own “network”

Women how to weave their own “network”

Each woman has her own network, everyone is a node in the network. However, every network is different. Some people have networks large and firm, everyone was in the net “w, friendship is deep, like everyone in your network can always listen to your disposal. Conversely, some people’s network is very small and loose, as if there is little sign of trouble will be damaged or lost, networks relationships in plain, or blue Merle close occasionally, when needed, you may also consider their own interests will not be affected, or what benefits you have. So, wise woman, how to weave, to make their networks to be the former rather than the latter?

To find a node
In nature, the Spider will be released into the air when a long. Search screen. Make floating wind or air, found a strong connection points, and then let out a drape silk, and in the middle two wires plus a third wire, Yu y, forming webs most basic parts. Then, on the basis of these three wire, spiders weave more than more than 50 wire, forming embryonic form of a spider’s Web.
Women weave their own networks as well, you’ll have to search in their own network as the first node in one or several people, through their own networks and nodes his goals, and then, from here, followed by the vertical and horizontal development, continue to find other reliable node.
To develop their network node in the process, you have to take pains, take the initiative to communicate with others through various nodes to form a more intimate relationship with you. Even if you don’t succeed to form a good relationship with the node, a surname, you’ll find, you keep on trying in the process, their own node in the network has been more and more, your own net has become more and more solid, more solid.
Node role to play
Network set up, does not mean the firm, also needed continually to maintain. You need to communicate often and the nodes in your network, and connect. This is not a waste of time, quality of communication will make you save a lot of time in the days ahead.
With these “nodes” communication process, the most important thing is to learn to share. Because everyone holds a lot of information, this information may not much good to yourself, but it may be valuable to others. This time, take the initiative, take it out, let you share your information with, perhaps, there will be one or more people who need to be able to use the information you provide. If everyone can do this, then all together, there will be a huge repository of information.
Wang Fang who is a communication, whether it is in your circle of friends or classmates, she’s a warm-hearted man. Therefore, her friends when she needed help, passion to reach out and help.
In a reunion, she inadvertently heard a student waves about, a new Mall is preparing to set up a jewelry counter, specific work by the negative is expensive. This information is captured in a timely manner by Wang Fang, after the party, Wang Fang did not come home directly Yes stores go, there is expected to set up counters in the excellent location of the Mall, have great commercial value.
Wang Fang found students immediately waves, told him he wanted to lease the jewelry counter. Afraid of the waves do not believe in yourself, she quietly told the waves, in fact, he is now an accessory manufacturers ‘ agents, distribution is free of charge, so money and supply is no problem.
Wang Fang’s enthusiasm and influence in student circles is known for, plus the accessory agents this guarantee, waves very readily agreed after Wang Fang’s request.
Students get, Wang Fang and immediately contacted his good friend aixin doing jewelry business, said he has found a good shopping malls counters, have great commercial value, sales have absolutely no problem, provided that the need for free distribution, so that she can guarantee that everyone is making money.
Aixin also has dealt with Wang Fang, rely heavily on her, not only promised her free shop goods, returned to her recommending several experienced brokers. Counter opening, business was very prosperous.
Wang Fang because usually everyone is enthusiastic, willing to share their own resources and, therefore, when you want to share resources, others are keen to support. Because of this, she don’t have much money in their own case, very well land rent to the counter, also receive preferential policies for free distribution by manufacturers.
In fact, in our relationships, everyone is a little in this online nodes, these nodes are linked together, networks can be solid and strong, a problem if one of the nodes, adjacent nodes are often loose, the whole NET is no longer strong. So whether someone online to serve as a node, and all of the nodes in your network, each node has to play its role of. Only function on each node, connected together the whole NET, net to be unbreakable.
Women have their own inherent advantages, so the relatively relaxed when women in business networking. However, everything is relative, women are born with some advantages, if women are not able to make good use of and play, also may be turned into a disadvantage, become disadvantages, not only unable to more contacts for themselves, and may interfere with the operation and development of the network. So, women in the use of their own advantages when you run network, must master the good one, grasp the skills.

The friendship, active atmosphere pull.

The friendship, active atmosphere pull.
Have a preliminary contact with strangers, to friendship, relationships, this is the second step to expand your contacts. Since it is set. , you must have an active atmosphere. Although we have met, but after all, is not familiar with, then if you can create an active and warm atmosphere, each other can be relaxed, and the exchange is more harmonious. County, how active atmosphere?
(1) praise to each other. In a deeper and deeper exchanges with each other before, you can first praise each other if you know the other side of the situation is naturally better, if the other side is not too much to understand, you can first from the other side of the appearance and the performance of the scene to praise, and thus extended a topic. People are vanity, in general, the majority of people in the praise of their own will be very excited, is also willing to open the topic.
(2) the use of props, one. Meet for the first time, the simple after greeting, because the moment there is no common topic, there will be a temporary lull, between may be awkward. At this time, you may temporarily unable to from elsewhere to find the topic, then you always carry some small props can also come in handy. For example, a unique key chain summer carry on in the bag a small fan, if the other party also happens to women, it is better to say, women never find the topic, Yun to just the other side put in the hands of fine packet can be as a props which leads to the topic, and on the basis of ulterior motive.
The atmosphere is active, the topic is started, and then you will find the other party’s interest in the conversation. Interest in the topic of interest, it is best to be able to direct the interest of the other side, in the exchange process, the performance of him, (her) and their interest.
Everyone wants to be concerned about, everyone has self-esteem and vanity, you pay attention to each other, naturally meet each other’s pride and vanity, the other naturally want to be close to you, close to the distance between you and you, and even consciously and you set almost. At this time, a friendship with each other, you locked up.
One point to be noted is that when you interact with a stranger, no matter what kind of subject matter, you must accept each other with a forgiving heart. Because each person’s views and positions are not the same, maybe you will have some differences of opinion in the process of communication, then do not have to to with each other is flushed, tolerant, try to accept each other’s point of view, even if they don’t accept, also do not need to be tough against, retreat in order to advance the method maybe better, so that the other party will more acceptable to you.