The friendship, active atmosphere pull.

The friendship, active atmosphere pull.
Have a preliminary contact with strangers, to friendship, relationships, this is the second step to expand your contacts. Since it is set. , you must have an active atmosphere. Although we have met, but after all, is not familiar with, then if you can create an active and warm atmosphere, each other can be relaxed, and the exchange is more harmonious. County, how active atmosphere?
(1) praise to each other. In a deeper and deeper exchanges with each other before, you can first praise each other if you know the other side of the situation is naturally better, if the other side is not too much to understand, you can first from the other side of the appearance and the performance of the scene to praise, and thus extended a topic. People are vanity, in general, the majority of people in the praise of their own will be very excited, is also willing to open the topic.
(2) the use of props, one. Meet for the first time, the simple after greeting, because the moment there is no common topic, there will be a temporary lull, between may be awkward. At this time, you may temporarily unable to from elsewhere to find the topic, then you always carry some small props can also come in handy. For example, a unique key chain summer carry on in the bag a small fan, if the other party also happens to women, it is better to say, women never find the topic, Yun to just the other side put in the hands of fine packet can be as a props which leads to the topic, and on the basis of ulterior motive.
The atmosphere is active, the topic is started, and then you will find the other party’s interest in the conversation. Interest in the topic of interest, it is best to be able to direct the interest of the other side, in the exchange process, the performance of him, (her) and their interest.
Everyone wants to be concerned about, everyone has self-esteem and vanity, you pay attention to each other, naturally meet each other’s pride and vanity, the other naturally want to be close to you, close to the distance between you and you, and even consciously and you set almost. At this time, a friendship with each other, you locked up.
One point to be noted is that when you interact with a stranger, no matter what kind of subject matter, you must accept each other with a forgiving heart. Because each person’s views and positions are not the same, maybe you will have some differences of opinion in the process of communication, then do not have to to with each other is flushed, tolerant, try to accept each other’s point of view, even if they don’t accept, also do not need to be tough against, retreat in order to advance the method maybe better, so that the other party will more acceptable to you.