How to be a smart woman

To be a smart woman, you can grasp the freedom of life and marriage, to master their own happiness, to have a better marriage life.
One, the high expectations of marriage mentality
Women will love fantasy, fantasy in the minds of men, their marriage is what kind of. But after entering the marriage, but found that everything is not so seriously, this is not the man lied to you, but your high expectations of marriage attitude to deceive you.
Two, too self-esteem and sensitive mentality
Self-esteem is everyone should have some, this is a man’s basic principles, but small make believe that some people have self-esteem, is the so-called sensitive, such as the other party said a joke, she can not stand. To say a bad word is too far.
Three, to shirk the responsibility of the state of mind
Life can not be all smooth sailing, so is marriage, how to in the face of those setbacks, and when the storm comes to face together, rather than pushing to the plus side, doing so will only exacerbate feelings of separation between the two.
Four, the expected return of the mentality
Marriage is the need for two people to work together, so it is necessary to do a good job on the marriage of marriage psychological, do not think that their pay more, the other party will return to you. Marriage is not a business, or you don’t have to get married.
Learn how to praise her husband
1, with an unexpected speech to praise him
If the man said, “Hello handsome” and the like, it is estimated that he should have been numb, there is no sense of freshness and satisfaction. So you have to also open up a road, for example, with the tone of the accident to tell him the other side, he will be very enjoyable.
2, put him and his worship of people put together to compare
Men also have idols, there will be people who worship. If you love his people in comparison with, he should be glad of it bubble.
3, to convey the words of praise
You praise him, my husband does not necessarily will benefit, but the praise of others he will be very happy, so you can borrow from the third person tone to praise him.
4, the man in the failure of the time also do not forget to praise
How much everyone will encounter some of the things, if the man in the face of setbacks, you should praise rather than blame. The man who is in a very low mood will be very dependent on you.